Women does your partner know what you want or how you want it?

Most of the time the answer is no, right? Most men get into bed and they are more interested into getting satisfied than in satisfying you. Have you ever told him what you want and like? No, then try it sometimes it works. A man does not have the ability to read your mind. You must talk and let them know what you want and like.

For women lost libido generally can be overcome. When a women starts to go thru menopause they tend to experience lose their desire for sex . There are two main reasons why women experience this loss; the main one is they feel they are getting old, this is not true. When going thru menopause remember women go thru it at different ages it all depends on what age you were when your cycle first started. For others it’s because they can no longer bear children, but remember when you begin menopause you are actually at an increased chance of becoming pregnant.

Females all over the world will experience this once in a while, but if you are experiencing it constantly you may need to look into getting help. If you are medically able to function the issue could be psychological. Many women who have been raped or been in an abusive relationship are more likely to go thru extended periods of decreased libido. There are even cases where the issue stems from self-esteem problems, lack of energy, and lack of interest in their sexual partner.

If you are experiencing self-esteem problems you may want to seek the assistance of a counselor. Keep in mind all women are perfect just the way they are. You are perfect and I am sure your partner realizes this. If on the flip side you have partner who does not seem to value you, then you need to get out of this relationship. A relationship where you are not valued can cause many problems and you are not going to want to perform let alone be able to perform.

The best way to keep you libido intact is to remember to these rules; keep you sex life interesting, don’t let it get boring this will cause a decrease in drive if you know its going to be the same way each and every time. Try picking up a book on sexual positions. If you are with someone who shows you how much they appreciate you and you are unable to perform then maybe the issue stems from something of a psychological nature, or a self-esteem issue. This is minus any physical conditions which may be associated with the decrease or loss of your libido/sex drive.

In short if there are no underlying medical conditions or physical/mental harm to you by another individual then you may need to look into psychological issues. Also keep in mind that sometimes women have phases just like men where they just simply don’t want to have sexual contact in any way shape or form. This is normal especially as women grow older.